Monday, July 31, 2006
Last sat, had an enjoyable day out with my long lost friends, CPK.
meet up with them, went to eat.
i forgot wat izzit.
sth like PepperLunch.
after that, slack around.
about 10pm, went to...
erm...
forgotten wat izzit.
a place to drink la.
my short term memory is getting worst day by day.
somebody save me.
here are two photos of me with Andy and Yingwen.
taken on that day.
dis is me and andy.
dis is me and yingwen.
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Ooh ya.
Last friday, met Jesmi as usual.
went to Bugis
AND I PIERCE ANOTHER EAR HOLE LE !!!
now i've got 3 ear holes on my right ear.
lolz.
ok, no big deal.
i know.
try to notice the ear holes in the photo below.
here's a photo of me n Jesmi
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another random thought.
this thing just came to my mind on...
a night when i'm chatting with my sister.
never never never cling onto a person.
cause it will only make the person feels veri irritated of u.
give u an example.
motherA loves to spend lots of time wif her children.
she cant accept the fact that her children has alrdy grown up.
she still loves the feeling of her children sticking to her wherever she goes.
she still misses the days whereby whenever she reach hme after work, she must see her children.
as a result, she 'cling' onto her children.
whenever her children reach hme, she will follow her children whevever they go.
finding ways n means to talk to them, communicate with them.
however, her children finds it veri...
bothersome.
on the other hand, motherB leads her own life.
she has her own friends n she spend time wif them.
she lead her life the way she likes and not lead her life for her children.
she place enough attention to her children but not too much.
as a result, her children are given the correct amt of time to miss their mummy.
then, the children are the ones asking 'Mum, shall we have dinner tgt tonight?'
do u see my point here?
when something or someone is unreachable,
u tend to tink its great.
but once u have it,
OR
have it easily,
u wont treasure it.
cos u've never got a taste of losing it.
probably this is why people says,
"you'll only know how to treasure something or someone when its gone."
BUT !!
my main point here is
(abt reachable or unreachable. not really abt gone or present)
Us, the human beings, are all the same.
when something or someone is unreachable
OR
seems~ to be unreachable,
we tend to treasure it better, think its great or wants it badly.
but once we have it,
OR
have it easily (within reach)
we will realise,
"its after all not that great. chey, I dont want liao."
i think my theory here applies greater to human's relationship.
example.
a guy is going after a girl.
the girl agress to it too fast.
the guy no longer sees any 'mystery' in the girl.
he lost interest.
and he dump her.
if the girl hold on to it longer.
in chinese,
diao qi lai mai.
the guy will see the girl as someone
unreachable.. mysterious..
the guy probably sees it as a challenge to win the girl's heart
and will in turn, treasure her better.
like a pearl.
All the above are just some random thought of mine !!!
u guys, Dont Think Too Much !!!
you know wat i mean.
*wink
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