Friday, June 16, 2006
I've come across magazine stating and i've also heard my friends saying that,
'If a guy is serious about you, he will be proud of you, proud to have you as his girlfriend and thus will want to show you to his family and friends.'
True enough.
i believe this is all about a sense of security.
y do i say its abt a sense of security.
how would u feel if u and ur partner are together and u happen to see a friend.
then, the friend asked 'hey, hows this beside u?'
and ur partner answered 'A friend.'
when u two are actually a couple.
how would u feel if people asked abt ur partner's status n he or she answer 'single.'
i don't think u will feel good.
u would probably be wondering,
'ani't i his/her girlfriend/boyfriend? y did he/she say i'm his/her friend.'
or...
'did he/she really treats me as his/her girlfriend/boyfriend?'
or even...
'y is he/she trying to hide our status? is he/she having another girlfriend/boyfriend outside?'
and once this kinda ques pops out of our mind, we would lost trust on him/her.
thus, dere will be a lack of security.
girls are always on a lookout for a sense of security from their boyfriend.
i am one of the extreme example. haha.
all i want from my boyfriend is a sense of security.
he has to give me that sense of security.
Oh ya, i remember this now.
Guys, wil u all please pop tt 'Will you be my girlfriend?' question before u start telling people she is ur girlfriend?
Its only being fair for that girl.
ya?
How to give your girl a sense of security?
Easy.
1. Hold her hand tightly (but dont hurt her) when u two are together. She will feel secure.
2. Never never never let go off her hand, in another words, continue holding her hand when u see your friends. It only makes her feel that, you dont want people to know she is your girlfriend.
3. Look into her eyes occasionally n say 'I Love You'. Let her feel your sincerity.
4. Bring her along to special occasions such as, a friend's birthday party or a christmas party. Let her know u are proud to have her as ur girlfriend.
5. If u are really really really not able to bring her along, give her a call or send her a sms once in a while. To let her noe, she is always on your mind.
I'm reading the magazine, Seventeen, and i come across this page with the heading:
17 things that make him sizzle!
We unveil what exactly makes your heart race, head turn, and fills your tummy with butterflies.
i browse thru and realise that a few of them turns out quite true for my case.
1. MUSICIANS- drummers, guitarists, singers. There's just something about musicians that makes us go weak in the knees. (i LOVE guys who can sing, play the drum, guitar n piano.)
2. Holding your hand while crossing the road. (i LOVE guys who hold on to my hand all the time when we're out together.)
3. Prominent veins along his forearm. (it shows that he is fit n manly. wow~)
4. Those piercing eyes that stare right into you. (right into the bottom of my heart.)
5. Sweeping you off your feet with that passionate lip-lock. (i suppose this applies to everyone out there. am i right?)
What to know what are the 12 other points? get yourself a Seventeen magazine =)